being open
I have been so positive towards being open and telling my friends that I’m trans and changing names. then I went home over the vacation and my mom said lik: ‘that’s way to dangerous to say when it’s obvious that you’re not a biological guy!’. ever since, I haven’t come out to more people and I’ve been like ‘I’m not passing’. but fuck that! fuck them! it’s my life, my decisions and they’re fucking mine to make!! I should stopworrying about whatever the person who has bought me dresses and given me a girlname thinks,and star listening to myself.
i’ve been passing well lately (pre T pre op), and it makes me so fucking happy!!! yesterday night, I was out in a park with some friends, all girs, half of them were gay. some of them didn’t manage to open a beer, so they asked some guys to do it for them. they came over and were like, “man, you should have managed to do that for these girls” noone has any idea how happy it made me, and i’m not out to people yet, so my friends acted all awkwardly afterwards XD and today, I was in the park and a bachelorette party came over to ask me question because I was a ‘young man’.I am so fucking happy!!!!!
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some results from this survey for ftms: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/viewform?formkey=dEdBd3JLa3otZG1nZjltQ1g4RFNYZFE6MQ
a survey made by ryan cassata (i think) for FTMs to gather some statistics! it’s a great idea, let’s all participate (for people identifying as FTM transgenders)
1911) My boyfriend just decided to come out to friends and family, binding and going by his chosen name. I love him very much, but he is all we ever talk about! I’m feeling neglected. While I support him and want him to be who he truly feels he is, I’m wondering when he will shut up. Does no one else feel this way? I feel guilty, but I’m in this relationship, too…
it’s the same thing for me and my girfriend, but we have talked about it, and I’m not as obsessed anymore, and I try a lot talking about other stuff now. just give it a couple of months and talk to him! you are right, you are in this relationship to : )
If you think pubic hair on a woman is unnatural or weird, you aren’t mature enough to be touching vaginas.
